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How's the development of this relationship?

on Wed 28 Jun 2017, 20:21

How's the development of this relationship?



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11/08/13 03:44
Year: e, Month: s, Day: yo-VI, Empty: y & m

      Commander - 7     Break - 41

      P yo  X  U        K y   -       yel
      B h  - -          B t  - -      red
      R c  - -          R sh - -      grn
      G w  - - J        R c  - -      blk
      R cn  -           K m   -       wht
      K y   X           G e   -       gry

      Stable            

Well i just joined a new company for a month and got along quite well with a female colleague of mine. As days go by, i started to feel something for her. So i asked iching if some deeper relationship with this lady will developed over the time. Maybe a romance or something.

Hex 41 - Break just seem scary enough.

So many Rs around, many suitors? 


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Xiao Hu  #1 [-]

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11/08/13 12:22
Although there is a connection between U line, self line and the Girl star on 1st line,  I don't think things will develop as you wish, not now anyway.
Also I wouldn't be to worried about hex 41 - Decrease.  You can read about meaning here,  http://www.akirarabelais.com/i/i.html#41.

Just wondering, are you in another relationship at the moment ?




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stn0404 #2 [-]

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11/08/13 13:52
Thank you xiaohu for your reply.

I do not have another relationship, if there is then it's my relationship with God. I think the girl has a boyfriend at the moment though, so i guess that's why there's no chance.

Maybe there's no affinity with this girl. Should i just give up and focus on other things?

Do you see anythings happening that will sour our current relationship?


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Xiao Hu  #3 [-]

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12/08/13 03:48
The appointed G should be 1st line G e, line link with U line. I don't know if she has a boyfriend... The fire Girl star is dead under day and month, that can mean a few things like lack of interest or motivation. Strongest stars in hex are the Adv B (colleagues /friends) and 6th line P yo. If 6th line represents her thoughts/ mentality then she is conservative and maybe just not interested in a relationship with a colleague, thinking if relationship fails it may cause  trouble/dispute at work.

I may be wrong, there's really no one here to check up my reading. What's meant to be will happen, be positive and do your best at work.

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stn0404 #4 [-]

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12/08/13 04:49
Thanks xiaohu. Perhas it's time for me to move on and focus at work.


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stn0404 #5 [-]

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12/08/13 06:34
And perhaps you are right, maybe she doesn't want a relationship in the office. I got this feeling that she may be a couple with another male colleague who is leaving the company soon.

I pray to god, let me be with her if he thinks we are suitable, when this male colleague (her suitor) decides to leave, i thought god gave me a chance, but i think about it, i think god is giving them a chance. 

Maybe god thinks that we are not suited.


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stn0404How's the development of my relation with this female colleague? #6 [-]

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30/08/13 03:54
I am not referring to an intimate relationship, but just the work relation. Things have started, the relation went from warmth to cold. I have a very bad feeling and i hope that it's wrong about this, things might turned sour and destroy the work relation/friendship here. I certainly do not wish that things turn out this way. It's good to have good colleagues around.

I tossed and asked How's the development of my relation with this female colleague?

Year: e, Month: s, Day: cn-V, Empty: sh & h

      Consume - 63      Little Much - 62

      B t  - - U        R sh - -      red
      R sh  O           P s  - -      grn
      P s   X           G w   -       blk
 G w  B h   -  J        P s   -       wht
      R c  - -          G w  - -      gry
      K m   O           R cn - -      yel

                        Unstable

R should stands for my worries here? J and U are both Bs, the relation between us is weak. When Sh month comes, it kills the B here, will there be an end to this relation? Please help. Are there any immediate actions that i would need to take?


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Xiao Hu Re: How's the development of my relation with this female colleague? #7 [-]

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30/08/13 04:25
Do me a favor, don't ask general type of questions like how will it be, ask exactly what you want to know.  You meet that person everyday at work and each day has it's own energy etc.  If you wanna practice,  general type of questions are a good way to do that.  But , as long as you don't even notice which lines are moving, cut, to weak to move or simply empty, it's better if you focus on YEs/No type of questions. 

Are you asking again about the same girl you already asked about before?


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stn0404Re: How's the development of my relation with this female colleague? #8 [-]

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30/08/13 04:36
It's the same girl. But this time isn't about any intimate relationship but work relation. Intimate one is impossible already so i move away from that. Now focusing on work relation.


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Xiao Hu Re: How's the development of my relation with this female colleague? #9 [-]

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30/08/13 04:48
Ok,  next time you ask about same person, put it in same thread. You can always change title to something more general, although in this case  Title works ok for both questions.  At least that way we can see all related hexes in one place. 

Will merge post with other one.


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stn0404 #10 [-]

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30/08/13 05:11
Xiao Hu wrote:


Ok,  next time you ask about same person, put it in same thread. You can always change title to something more general, although in this case  Title works ok for both questions.  At least that way we can see all related hexes in one place. 

Will merge post with other one.

Thanks xiaohu. I will keep ya posted on whats going on. I give updates.


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Xiao Hu  #11 [-]

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30/08/13 05:23
stn0404 wrote:


It's the same girl. But this time isn't about any intimate relationship but work relation. Intimate one is impossible already so i move away from that. Now focusing on work relation.
If you wanna focus on work relationship than act accordingly.  What exactly is there to be worried about?? It takes 2  people to have an argument, a fight etc.. You don't wanna fight with someone, control your emotions and stay away from disagreements.  You can't control others thoughts and actions, but as they say "it takes 2 to tango". 




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Xiao Hu  #12 [-]

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30/08/13 05:47
Oh and instead of worrying about whatever happens between you and her, look at your self line.  You are your own worse enemy, consumed with depressing thoughts. Would you want to become a friend with someone in this state of mind ?

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stn0404 #13 [-]

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30/08/13 06:17
You meant knowing what i can control and what i can't? If there's a fall out, 2 are at fault instead of one?


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Xiao Hu  #14 [-]

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31/08/13 03:39
yeah, it takes two to argue, same as it takes two with equal interest in each other to make a relationship work.
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